Getting Started with Therapy

What To Expect

The Consultation Call

Getting started with a therapist (or a new therapist) can be daunting.  We can schedule a free 15-minute consultation call. During this time we can briefly discuss your presenting concerns, to ensure that it’s within my current scope of practice.  This time during the consultation call also gives us a chance to ask and answer questions on both sides, and ensure that we are a good match personality-wise. 

The First Appointment

A good question to ask yourself before our first appointment is "What brings you to therapy at this time, and how does your cultural or ancestral background play a role?" This immediately centers the focus of our work together.

We will discuss this question in depth. We will also begin to discuss relevant background information, and begin developing a plan for our work together.

How This Work Shows Up in Daily Life

Therapy that addresses intergenerational trauma, colonization, and systemic oppression isn't abstract—it touches every part of how you move through the world. Whether you're seeking support around ancestral healing, accountability, or navigating complex identities, the work we do together will ripple across the domains of your life.

Here are some of the areas clients often find themselves exploring:

Relationships & Intimacy
How do patterns of survival—hypervigilance, people-pleasing, or emotional guardedness—show up in your partnerships, friendships, or parenting? How has your family's history of displacement, assimilation, or trauma shaped how you attach, trust, or set boundaries? We'll explore how the past lives in your connections and work toward relationships rooted in choice rather than survival.

Work, Purpose & Vocation
Do you find yourself navigating predominantly white or homogenous spaces, code-switching, or carrying the weight of being "the only one"? Are you questioning whether your work aligns with your values, or feeling called toward something more meaningful than simply surviving? We'll explore how systemic dynamics shape your professional life and what it might look like to build a relationship with work that sustains rather than depletes you.

Family & Lineage
What patterns have been passed down through your family line—around silence, rage, grief, or resilience? How has colonization, forced migration, or assimilation shaped your family's story and your place within it? Whether you're seeking to heal ruptures, understand what you've inherited, or parent differently than you were parented, we'll make space for the complexity of family.

Self-Worth & Identity
Do you struggle with feeling like you're "too much" or "not enough"? Do you navigate the space between cultures, never feeling like you fully belong anywhere? Have you internalized messages about your worth based on your race, class, gender, or immigrant status? We'll trace these beliefs to their roots—often in systemic oppression and intergenerational messaging—and work toward a sense of self that is grounded, complex, and yours.

Body & Nervous System
Do you experience chronic anxiety, hypervigilance, or disconnection from your body? Has your body been a site of survival, trauma, or systemic violence? We'll explore how oppression lives somatically—in tension, exhaustion, numbness, or activation—and work toward expanding your capacity to feel safe and at home in your own body.

Grief, Anger & Collective Loss
Are you carrying grief that feels larger than any single loss—grief for ancestors, for culture, for land, for what was stolen or never allowed to be? Do you feel rage at systems of oppression but struggle with where to put it? This work holds space for the collective dimensions of grief and anger, understanding them not as symptoms to be eliminated but as wisdom to be honored and channeled.

Accountability & Integrity
Are you seeking to understand your own privileges—racial, class-based, or otherwise—but unsure how to do so without getting stuck in guilt or paralysis? Do you want to show up more accountably in your relationships, communities, or activism? We'll explore what it means to hold privilege with integrity, moving beyond shame into sustainable, values-aligned action.

Frequently Asked Questions


Virtual Sessions

The Online Portal allows you to connect to my virtual office from your phone, tablet, or computer.

45 minute session I $165

My private practice is self-pay, which means that appointment fees are collected the day of session.  The purpose of this is for both of us to have more autonomy throughout our work together. 

If you would like to use your insurance plan on an out-of-network basis, I can provide monthly superbilling. The online portal will generate a monthly super bill and send it directly to your email. Send this document to your insurance company and they can reimburse your session fees.

Contact your insurance company to find out if you have this out-of-network benefit on your specific plan.